Being able to successfully seduce someone boosts one ego as much as being seduced by another person-you feel sexy and desirable, you feel wanted so it is not shocking that people would want to be seduced or would like to try seducing another. It finally becomes successful when the person being seduced does things back. The other keeps pleasuring him and having sex with him one-sidedly, effectively becoming the bottom or the submissive one pleasing the other.
He still does not register this and does not kiss back or initiate a move, he just allows the other to do whatever he wants. As their cocks ache insight, the one seducing starts to kiss them-the former giving uncontrollable moans, easily succumbing to what the other is actually doing. Giving hints such as winking and dressing slutty in front of the other person, or maybe something a little more progressive such as straight-up going for a kiss or fondling their cocks, obviously erected against their pants. In gay porn, it is actually more about teasing the other person. Seducing is not merely about dressing well or changing how you look, it is also all about the attitude and how you apply techniques. The art of seduction is not something you learn overnight-it takes the right mindset, confidence, and actual application or experience to pull it off.
